A normal love relationship should be symbiotic in nature. If the reverse is the case then it is parasitic in nature. Let me take you back to secondary School we were taught about symbiosis and parasite.
Symbiosis in biological terms is the relationship between two living things that live together and depend on each other. In other words it is called a give and take relationship. A parasite on the other hand lives in or on another animal or plant and get food and protection from it. What a contrast!
By this definitions we don’t need a soothsayer to tell us the behaviors of parasite or parasitic beings in love relationship. Check these out;
✓ If h/she is interested in your money rather than you.
✓ If h/she is not interested in your growth and development.
✓ If h/she is selfish
✓ If all h/she know is sex and sex only.
✓ They are always looking for ways to take advantage of you.
✓ Your energy is constantly drained.
✓ You always feels overwhelmed.
✓ Your day is all about taking care of their needs and wants.
✓ They always expect you to make their lives better.
✓ Loving and taking care of them becomes a condition or proof of love for them.
Watch out for this signs and work on them.
Parasitic relationship is traumatic, stressful and energy sapping. The best option is to end such relationship, it is a red flag. If such relationship is managed and pushed into marriage a disaster is inevitable. Everything in love relationship should be mutual and not one sided by so doing relationship can be impactful.
Forever is too long a time to be unhappy. Run a check and do the needful.
You know I love you.
An impactful and responsible relationship and marriage is possible.