There are women, there are special women and there are extremely special women.
the extremely special woman isn’t the type you meet just at the tap of your finger; just like in commerce, she’s a rare commodity.
unsurprisingly, a number of men have these kinds of women and take them for granted, till it’s too late. it’s one thing having a special woman, but it takes great wisdom to acknowledge and appreciate that woman before you lose her to someone else.
1) she’s driven
the extremely special woman is driven, she’s passionate, and one who has goals to reach and doesn’t stop working till she reaches those goals. she’s also a motivator, and also helps her man be the best he can be. you can call her a jewel.
2) she’s understanding
having a partner that’s understanding is always a great thing. the extremely special woman tries to be that understanding partner; she’s rarely the type to start a quarrel or point accusing fingers. she will compromise positively when possible and she is highly supportive of her man.
3) corrects her man without bias
she’s also objective and tells her man when he’s wrong without making much of it. not every woman would want to correct her man when he’s wrong, but an extremely special woman would do that in a loving way without being bias.
4) she forgives easily
she’s also not the type to take things personal; she doesn’t bear grudges and has a heart that forgives. forgiveness is an integral part of the relationship and she understands that.
5) accepts who you are
everyone have their flaws, their mistakes and things that makes them far from perfect — this is why we are human; we’re far from perfect. but the extremely special woman accepts her man for whom he is; she isn’t carried away by superficial things.
6) she has a big heart
the extremely special woman is kind, loving, caring and has a free spirit to not only her man but everyone she comes across. she loves to help people and make an impact with her kindness. she isn’t selfish or self-centred, she has an accommodating heart.
7) faithful to the core
we live in times where faithfulness is so hard to find, not only in men but woman as well. recent research has shown that even though men are more promiscuous than women, women are now closing the gap, but the extremely special woman is special.
8) she’s appreciative
sometimes, people tend to select what to appreciate, but that’s a wrong approach. anything that someone does for you should be appreciated, no matter how little it may seem, besides that’s the easiest way to make them do more. the extremely special woman appreciates every good her man does; she isn’t selective in appreciation.
9) knows when she’s wrong
even the extremely special woman isn’t perfect, she makes mistakes, sometimes goes across the line, but the major difference is that she knows when to accept her mistakes, take responsibilities for them, apologise and move on. a simple ‘i’m sorry’ are two words that would save a lot of marriages that tilts towards divorce.
10) she does everything to make her man happy
the extremely special woman is one that loves her man to the core and loves to make him happy; seeing her man happy gives her delight.
sister are you that extremely special woman, or always looking for shortcut?
are you a nagging woman?
for the brothers, do you have an extremely special woman in your life?
prov.3.15 – she is more precious than rubies: and all the things thou canst desire are not to be compared unto her.
be that extremely special woman….to your husband