QUOTE: IN YOUR PRESENT RELATIONSHIP, YOU CAN EITHER FOCUS ON WHAT’S TEARING YOU APART OR WHAT’S HOLDING YOU TOGETHER.
Every Heart has only one original Key that can unlock it: the one you own. But when you fall in Love, you make it two: the spare they trust another with.
Now see the great & foolish mistake most people make when they “Fall in Love”. They throw away their own key & leave just the spare with their partner.
This is WHY when they get hurt; they simply can’t get back in to fix things because to hurt someone is like scattering a well arranged room. That person entered with the spare & turned your house upside down.
But if you had the Original Key, you can always enter in to re-arrange your house the way you want it. But because most people have lost their own key, they find it very difficult to move on after a heart break.
WARNING: Never throw away your own key (the power to your own happiness) so the day your partner decides to mess up your well-arranged house(heart), all you need to do is simply use your spare to open it, arrange your house as you want it, change the lock and be happy again.
13 STUPID THINGS YOU DO THAT SHOWS YOU HAVE LOST THE ORIGINAL KEY & WHAT IS LEFT IS THE SPARE WITH YOUR PARTNER.
1) Quitting very vital roles in your life simply because you fell in Love. E.g, school, Job (as a father), etc.
2) Loving someone more than you Love yourself. Doing for another person what you have never done for yourself.
3) Rushing into marriage in hope that your partner will become your ultimate provider and source.
4) Abandoning your personal values, beliefs, faith just to please another person.
5) Changing yourself to please another person.
6) Allowing another person to drag your life along a part you never planned or even dreamed of.
7) Giving someone control over vital areas of your life. Eg, your Bank account, your Facebook Password, certificate of your landed properties, spare key to your house, ATM password, etc.
8) Allowing a man to dis-virgin or even sleep with you when he has not said “I do” or walked you down the aisle. Getting pregnant for a man because he promised he’ll marry you when you do.
9) Packing in to live with a man who has not married you.
10) Abandoning your family and friends in the name of “I’m in Love.”
11) Buying properties in the name of a man or woman you are yet to get married to.
12) Tagging along with a man who has not said anything about your future together and refusing to give other men a chance OR waiting for a girl who is yet to give an answer to your proposal for years without moving on with your life.
13) Tolerating abuse (physical – beating, sexual – rape, emotional – insults, etc) from a partner and remaining in such a relationship, believing s/he will change.
