1) WITH WORDS
Learn how to flirt and turn on your spouse. Learn to speak naughty. To make your spouse wet or hard simply by the words you speak
2) WITH YOUR EYES
Learn to look at your spouse with bedroom eyes and desire. This is done by a long stare of wonder done with confidence. There is a look you can give that excites
3) WITH YOUR TOUCH
Learn how to grab, how to squeeze, how to use your fingers. Not only how to touch, but where to touch. Your spouse has spots he/she loves to be touched, explore them
4) WITH YOUR BREATHING
There is a passionate breathing that is a turn on. That breathing when you two hug or touch, it makes the blood run
5) WITH YOUR DRESSING
Know how to sexually appeal visually. Adorn your body in a manner that presents it well. Keep upgrading your look to prevent monotony
6) WITH YOUR VOICE
Tone is key. As you whisper to your spouse, call your spouse over the phone or speak so close to each other; there is a voice that says “I want you. NOW!”
7) WITH YOUR TEXT MESSAGES
Distance should not be an issue. Arouse your spouse with your suggestive messages. Don’t do it in an affair, do it to your spouse
8) WITH YOUR KISSING
The meeting of lips is one of the sexiest things. With tongue or without, lower lip then upper, bitting and releasing, passionate and slow; kiss your spouse good
9) WITH YOUR MOANING
Moaning is a major turn on, it urges your spouse on and in fact, increases the intensity of the climax. Moaning is like a cheering squad building up to the orgasm. Men too also moan, they give that growl when just about to ejaculate
10) WITH YOUR ENTERTAINING PERFORMANCE
Be entertaining. Strip for your spouse, do a lap dance, bend over, pose naked, stand in front of her with your erect penis, lay suggestively on the bed. Give your spouse a view that cannot be resisted
11) WITH YOUR SCENT
Invest in good scents that make your spouse take in your presence and want to get close to your skin
12) WITH YOUR SEXUAL ORGAN
Know how to make use of your sexual organ. How to trap him with your clitoris, how to take in his penis in a manner that drives him crazy, how to pump inside her faster, harder, just the way she likes it.