Most wives believe that men are tough, their heart is hard and impenetrable. Despite this, there are 16 things every wife can do
to melt the heart of her husband. They are:
1) PUBLIC RESPECT: Men ,regardless of their
race,colour,height or class in the society wants to
be respected by their wives even if she is the one
feeding them. Top among the respect they crave
for is public respect. They want to be addressed
with respect in the presence of their
friends,colleagues and onlookers. Stop calling him
by his first name,call him :My Lord,M.D,Sweet
heart,My love,etc. Respect his orders,
instructions,opinions and respect his
uniqueness. Talk to him with respect and let him
know that you do. Any woman that disrespect her
husband outside shall have a difficult man to live
with.
2) TAKE TO HIS CORRECTIONS:No matter your
height or achievement in life,you must be humble
enough to obey your husband.Honour him,let him
control you , take to his corrections and don’t be
stubborn.Don’t disdain his authority,be teachable
and you will be greatly loved by him.
3) LOVE HIS MOTHER:Majority of wives often
make the mistake of marrying their husbands
only and declaring hatred and war to his
mother. This is a grave error.You can not
hate his mother and expect him to love you.
Men love their mother so much because that
is the first woman in their lives.Accept his
mother,demonstrate love to her by buying
things for her on your own,encourage your
husband to visit her together.Don’t jus love
his mother alone,love his father and his
entire family.
4) BE FASHIONABLE: No man can resist an
attractive woman,with good dress sense. Be
neat,put on clean,current and fitted attire with a
very good colour combination. Stop dressing like
an old school woman who has no sense for clour
matching with lose clothes thereby looking older
than her age.Dress like a babe,not like a woman.
5) COOK HIS FOOD: Whosoever controls the mouth
of a man controls his heart.This is so,because the
road to the heart of a man is through the kitchen
door.Don’t be too busy to cook for your
husband.Create the time to cook his meal the way
he wants it ,stop delegating his meal to
housemaids or your sblings.Cook delicious and
timely meal food for him.
6) SERVE HIS FOOD :Don’t just cook his food
alone,serve it specially.Don’t delegate it to
someone else,serve his food with special plates
and treat him like a VIP.Treat him like a special
guest on the dining table.
7) BUY GIFTS FOR HIM:Contrary to general belief
that only men should be buying gifts for women,in
marriage,men normally appreciate gifts from their
wives.Don’t just wait for him to buy gifts for
you,buy for him too.Strange women often trade
with this secrets even though;they will get triple of
the amount spent.Wives,wise up!
8) GIVE HIM FINANCIAL SUPPORT:Some men go
into extra-marital affairs with women older than
them due to her financial status.This attitude is
wrong but it is a pointer to the fact that men also
want financial support from the women in their
lives.Don’t just be his wife,be his financial
supporter.Help him financially to finance his
project,fix his car,build a house,pay the children
school fees whenever the need arise.Give him
financial support and he will give you his entire
life.
9) SPEND TIME WITH HIM:When a woman become
too busy to have time for her husband,she has
lost a companion. It takes time to build intimacy
,companionship don’t happen accidentally,it is a
product of time investment.Create time for your
husband,value him more than your job because
he is your life-time job.
10) APPRECIATE HIM: Appreciation is attaching
value or importance to any gifts received or kind
deed received from somebody.Every man love to
be appreciated.Don’t see anything done to you by
your husband as a right,see it as a privilege and
thank him.Appreciate his stature,money for
upkeep,house rent paid,children school fees,for
eating your food,among others.Don’t overlook
little kindness.
11) LISTEN TO HIM:Always give your husband a
listening hear with rapt attention whenever he is
talking to you.Don’t give room to divided attention
while he is talking.Stop the phone
conversation,turn away from the soap opera ,stop
loosing your hair just to listen to him,don’t argue
with him.This will excites him and make him love
you more.
12) BE FAITHFUL TO HIM:Your beauty and dressing
will keep attracting other men to you but do not
give in to them.Never permit any other man in
your life,do not defile your bed.Stick to your
husband alone.He is enough for you.
13) TELL THE CHILDREN ,HE IS THE BEST MAN:Keep
telling your children to his hearing and when he is
not around that he is the best husband and a
daddy.That they are privilege to have him as their
father.There is no man that will hear this that will
not be happy.Don’t join the league of women that
keep insulting their husbands in the presence of
their children.
14) DEVELOP INTEREST IN HIS HOBBY:Some
women make the mistake of fighting their
husband because of his passion for his hobby.The
best way to get a man is through his hobby.If he
loves football,fall in love with his club.Love his
vision,passion,profession and ministry.
15) MASSAGE HIS BODY:After the day’s work,make
it an habit to always massage his body. This will
bring him to the state of rest removing tension
from him ,making him homely indeed.With this,he
always rush home after work,having no time to
handout with the boys.
16) ENJOY SEX WITH HIM:There is no way you can
get to the heart of your husband if you deny him
sex.Release your body to him,satisfy his sexual
longing.Don’t let him hunt for sex outside.Enjoy
sex with him and he make life enjoyable to you.
