Relationship and Marriage is meant to improve you, take you forward and make your life better!
I am not merely talking about adding weight and becoming bugger which appears to be the commonest change we experience.
Our mental wellbeing.
Our financial capacity.
Our spiritual health.
Our everything.
Two are supposed to be better than one!
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12a
“Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed.”
HELP EACH OTHER!
“If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble.”
SUPPORT AND HELP WHEN/IF WE HAVE A FALL!
“Likewise, two people lying close together can keep each other warm. But how can one be warm alone?”
COMPANIONSHIP AND DESTINY ADVANTAGE!
“A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer.”
STRENGTH, BACKUP, FORMIDABLE UNION!
To the single therefore,
WHAT IS THE USE OF MARRYING THEM?
What help?
What advantage?
Just what?
To the married,
What has been the use, help or advantage conferred on your spouse for marrying you?
Weigh your marriage!
Ask these questions seriously and don’t pretend about it.
When marriage works as it should,
Each year should bring us closer, make us happier and bring us more fulfilment.
Why?
Because, we should have found our help in each other, forged a formidable union and offered companionship like no one else can offer us.
These thoughts must drive our perspectives on marriage.
These thoughts must shape our experience in it.
On the flip of these,
If it threatens your very life,
Run for help!!!
It is okay for constructive separation to be ordered by the right authority figure in your life until marriage is safe enough to return to.
It is the living who do marriage, not the dead.
Think on these things.
