1) NARCISSIST
This is one of the most abused words used these days. People are quick to call their spouse a narcissist. The moment you tell your spouse he/she is this, you are passing judgment and might discourage your spouse from putting effort in becoming better
2) FOOLISH
Even if your spouse makes some bad choices, don’t make your spouse feel stupid by name calling. It doesn’t rectify the issue
3) CHILDISH
Just because you know more about a matter than your spouse doesn’t give you the right to make your spouse feel lesser. Love is teaching your spouse what you know
4) UNGODLY
Don’t dare think you are closer to God than your spouse because you sin different, you pray longer, you know more Bible verses or you are more active in Church. You don’t lead your spouse closer to God by coming off superior. Where is your humility? Don’t call your spouse devil or devil’s agent just because your spouse has fallen
5) FAILURE
Just because your spouse has had a string of disappointments, closed doors and rejection does not mean you make it worse and call your spouse a failure. Don’t beat your spouse down when he/she is already down
6) BURDEN
Don’t make your spouse feel like a load to carry. If you will help your spouse and keep calling your spouse names then don’t help at all. Your support should come from your heart, not with insults
7) REGRET
When you call your spouse a regret you made, you are passing judgment also to yourself – you chose your spouse. If you feel marrying your spouse was a regret, why are you continuing in regret? End the marriage instead of insulting your spouse
8) PROSTITUTE
Just because you suspect your spouse of cheating or have caught your spouse cheating doesn’t mean you call your spouse all manner of names. Yes, you are angry, but is your anger helping the situation or making it worse? Your spouse fell, it is for you two to decide, does this mean the end of your marriage or will you two work things out?
9) NOT MAN ENOUGH
Just because your man has fallen short, doesn’t mean you make him feel inadequate. This is not how to bring out the best in him
10) UGLY
Don’t insult your spouse’s body then expect that same body to give you great sex. Grow up
Name calling only worsens the condition of your marriage, it is a form of emotional abuse and discourages team work. Are the words you are saying building or destroying your marriage?
