When searching for that special someone, it’s always good to have an image of what he should be like. It’s awfully easy for a man to puff up his chest and put on a show, but how can you know if he is a real man? Discover the truth today with these 36 Essential Qualities of a Gentleman.
1) A real man fears God. A man who doesn’t fear God is dangerous and will not have regard for human feeling. He will not know how to truly love.
2) A real man is faithful. He will not cheat on you. He has no alternative so he focuses on you alone! He will not flirt with your girlfriends! He has values in life and will not compromise on them,come what may.. He is reliable and trustworthy. He is faithful to you no matter the pressure from other ladies
3) He respects you. If a man cannot respect a woman, he just does not qualify. He respects your personality, your values, your religious beliefs, your emotional needs, your physical needs, your general outlook regarding life, your past and your present.
4) He stands by his word at all times. He is faithful, loyal and honest. He is a man of integrity. He’s not just a careless talker but a keeper of his word.
5) He is not arrogant to say “I’m Sorry’ if that is what will save the relationship. Love is not proud!
6) A real man wait for sex until your wedding night and never deprive you of his body after wedding!
7) A real man is a man of prayer. He prays for and with you. He prays without ceasing
8) He takes note and remembers important dates in your life and feels terrible when he forgets your birthday or anniversary and will always make it up to you.
9) Love gives. A real man is a giver. He gives generously. He surprises you with gifts, even when the occasion is not special. He’s not stingy.
10) He Tells you regularly that he loves and cherishes you.
11) He understands you even if nobody does and always makes you feel you are the best
12) He helps you out with chores and errands. He’s involved in having a life with you. He will want to help you with the housework and run errands for you.
13) He Feels your pain when you go through hard times and stands by you until you overcome
14) He Loves to see you happy and rejoices with you
15) In spite of his busy schedule, he always creates quality time to spend with you.
16) He Will never physically or emotionally abuse you because Love is Kind.
He’ll protect you emotionally and physically. He won’t let anyone hurt you
17) He Will marry you without waiting too long. A real man is not a time waster.
18) He forgives and forgets your offences when you apologize for hurting his feelings. He never refers to past offences
19) He Will not use your weaknesses or secrets against you. He Will not air your dirty laundry.
20) A real man is a book lover and encourages you to invest in personal development.
21) He Is patient and willing to work on your relationship problems. He never allows work or hobbies to be more important than your relationship/marriage and family.
22) He Knows that it is important for you to spend sometime with your friends and family members.
23) A man who truly loves you celebrate you in the public and he is not ashamed to tell the world how much he loves you!
24) He Will not go out of his way to make you jealous.
25) He Will always respect you in the presence of his friends and family members.
26) A real man appreciates you. He notices the little things you do in a relationship or life in general and won’t miss a chance to express his appreciation towards you to elevate you and to make you feel important.
27) He enjoys the company of your family and friends. A real man treats people with respect.
28) He Supports your dreams and ambitions. He is your number one fan
29) He Never puts you down when talking to you.
30) He Cares a great deal about your thoughts, feelings and opinions.
31) He Is always available to help when you need him.
32) He Knows that his way is not the only way. He respects your opinion too
33) He cares. He always calls you to find out how your day is going
34) A real man is never lazy. He is willing to take action without hesitation. He knows how to make money, save money and invest money wisely.
35) A real man is committed to the WORD OF GOD and challenges you to get closer to God!
36) A real man is a good leader. He never threatens to leave you or divorce you no matter what happens. A Real Man Is A Forgiver!
No man is expected to be perfect. However, a real man does what he can to strive for these ideals.
And A Real Woman Never Takes His Love For Granted Because Such Man Is Rare To Find!
Man, May God Make you Such Man
Single Lady, May Such Man Find you
Married Woman, May God Make Your Husband A Real Man Indeed