We faces a lot of challenges as a Christian in a relationship. You will likely be tempted beyond what you can bear, but hold on, a little further….
During courtship, it will be a steady battle to resist the thought of sex before marriage. This battle will lead to erections, urge and feelings.
But, always tell your body to calm down because this thing, it will be rushing to have is will.
Why rush to have it now and soil your testimony in the future? Why can’t you just wait till the last day?
Most intending couple allow the devil to shut them up in the future by tempting them to engage in sex before marriage.
He wants to steal your voice so that you can’t even advise another person on sexual abstinence.
If you did it before marriage, what will you tell your children when they start asking you questions? If they ask you did you do it before marriage, how will you lie to them you didn’t?
The truth is that you can’t give what you don’t have .
If you lie to save your face, you are transferring a negative energy to them which will hunt them and make it difficult for them to overcome.
For the sake of your future, stay away from sex before marriage. It will dampen your faith and make you voiceless when a voice is needed.
Note: this post is not in any way judging anyone who have engaged in sex before marriage.
If you have done it with your partner before and you guys want to get married, you can stop doing it and do what’s right now. If you repent wholeheartedly before marriage, you will have the boldness also to say that you stopped and waited until marriage after you repented.
No time is too late to do what’s right.
Stay blessed.
