There are so many forces working tirelessly to ensure that your relationship do not see the sun that rises in the morning, these forces could be spiritual or physical. In some relationship it’s spiritual, in other relationships it could be physical but there are certain relationships that its both spiritual and physical joining forces together to ensure that your relationship ends no matter what.
In other for their plans to succeed they set traps for you and your spouse and patiently wait for either of you to fall into that trap and then they destroy you. That is why you need to be very careful so as you don’t fall into such traps, not just you, lead your partner by the Hand and lead them so they don’t fall into such traps because if they do it will affect you.
One of these traps they set for you is MALICE AFTER A MISUNDERSTANDING. Misunderstanding is something you can never do away with in a relationship but you can decide the affects it would have on your relationship.
When you have a misunderstanding with your spouse stop keeping malice with them, stop avoiding them its very dangerous, by doing that you have already fallen into their trap. When you avoid them and they are alone these evil forces keeps playing with their minds and feeding them with negative thoughts hereby making matters worst.
When you avoid your spouse and you leave them all alone by themselves that’s when one fine dude will come into the picture, that’s when one beautiful girl will come into the picture, since they are vulnerable 60% of people in such cases end up cheating on their spouse.
Avoiding your spouse after a misunderstanding only creates room for problems, it could create damages that may never be fixed so at the end of the day the beautiful relationship ends, a relationship you could have saved was killed by your own ego and pride.
When there is a misunderstanding, don’t avoid each other, apologise weather you’re wrong or right it does not matter the most important thing is that you didn’t fall into the trap and your relationship is still intact. The greatest way to resolve misunderstanding is through “DIALOGUE” (talk about it) I didn’t say argue, I said have a conversation talk about it.
Immediately after the misunderstanding apologize, don’t talk about the matter immediately, look for a time that both of you are in a happy mood and then have a conversation about what happened.