Some girls, let me say, ladies, have been asking if it is okay to go visit a man who showed interest in them.
Some of the men have never visited the lady once, some visited only once while others met theirs online and the man is putting pressure to come and visit especially in a hotel.
Honestly speaking, the level of some ladies naivety can be alarming! You don’t know a man from Adam, you met him online and he is putting pressure you come visiting in a hotel and you want to carry your two legs and go there???
No one knows him with you: your parents, family members, friends, counsellor, Pastor knows this man and…for God’s sake, where will you tell your parents you are going? Do you listen to the news? Are you aware of what is happening in the world now? Alright. Receive sense in Jesus’ name!
He came once! Visited you just once! And he wants you to come to his house and the guy goes completely crazy or malicious because you refuse to visit him in his apartment. You better be careful around this guy. Let him visit you at least five times with your parents and siblings knowing everything they need to know about him before you step out of your house to a public place at least twice. If you feel safe, you may try his apartment and ensure the door is widely opened in ccasehe wants to try anything funny!
I don’t know what is wrong with some guys who put pressure on ladies to come to their bed, sorry, apartment barely after meeting them. What’s wrong with you? Why can’t you control yourself once you set your eyes on the opposite sex?
Some ladies go spend days or weeks in a man’s house, a man they are not married to and do everything degrading whatsoever till all her self esteem is destroyed!
Oh honey, why don’t you just treat yourself like a real queen that you are, pray about it, let him pay your bride price and wed you properly before carrying out the responsibility of a wife with dignity and honour?
When a man gets milk for free, why will he buy the cow?
Babes, let’s get some sense, please.
Some questions are unnecessary. Check your heart, you know the answer.
May you do not end up a victim.
