Dating is different from courtship. I could keep a date with someone I love. We could go out there in the community to do things we may like. You can not court someone you have not dated.
You must have to go for a walk together, go to watch movies together, and then ask for an opportunity to court her. Courtship is when you gat to ask all the questions, you visit each other with friends and get to know him well.
You study each other’s temperament and spiritual life. You ask questions on what he / her earns, debts, investments, personal loans, and businesses.
Courtship is not marriage, but knowing each others abilities, strength, and inability. At any time during the courtship, you discover that he or she is not what you are looking for. You must take a bold decision to bow out.
Courtship is not giving out yourself to be used or taken advantage of anything. Sex should be discouraged during courtship. Rather, ask questions regarding beliefs on sex issues.
DATE- DATING- COURTSHIP- MARRIAGE. It’s all a step to the other. You can’t meet someone today and jump into marriage.
DATE is a time set aside to introduce each other. This is what i call ” GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER BETTER.” While DATING is when you must have known each other better than you,”
LEARN MORE ABOUT EACH OTHER” After this is done, then you can know if you both can move ahead to COURTSHIP. this is the junction you know you are good to go, this is a time the proper planning Also start.
Going out on a date does not mean we will start dating. Some people always believe that when they go out on a date with someone, it shows they have started dating. when you are dating someone doesn’t guarantee you marrying the person.
Even during courtship, it is not 100% that it would lead to marriage. Sometimes, engagement isn’t going to work until there is public exchange of your marriage vows.
