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HOW YOU CAN BECOME A GOOD HUSBAND/WIFE

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What are the qualities of a wife and the qualities of a husband?

Let’s go back to Eden again to look into that. But let’s start first with the petty issues

HOUSE CHORES

Adam was doing chores in Eden alone before Eve arrived. So he wasn’t the type of man that doesn’t know to keep the garden clean, neat and well arranged. He must have be doing his own cooking too, if he had been cooking and not just feeding on fruits all the time. Though the account in the book of Genesis did not reveal that to us explicitly. But it’s a common sense to know he must have been doing that, if he had been eating cooked meals.

So a man should have learned and known so well how to clean, wash, and keep the house properly arranged. This is not something to learn in marriage. This is not something to expect only the woman to be doing in marriage. It’s something that must have been learnt by you and well mastered before marriage.

If you don’t know how to cook your own food as a man, you are not yet qualified nor ready for marriage.

“That’s rubbish! Say’s who? ” you protest!

Say’s the qualities you ought to have adequately developed and easily exhibit as a husband, even before you start thinking of going into a relationship let alone marriage. Men who don’t know how to do house chores are mostly the ones that don’t appreciate their wife’s efforts and hard work, nor assist her in doing house chores. House chores are not meant for women alone. It’s for both the man and woman. When you marry, you become one with your woman. And if you’re one, you are meant to be doing the house chores together as one.

As a young lady, if you are not thoroughly devoted to doing house chores then you’re not qualified yet for marriage. You should be thoroughly furnished unto all good works in your home, family and marriage.

If you have not been able to take proper care of your own room or hostel as a lady, how would you be able to take proper care of three bedroom apartment or duplex when you marry? All you are learning and doing now are preparing you for your marriage, home and family. Are you becoming all you should become as a woman before you marry? This a question that a wise lady would sincerely answer and begin to do something about urgently.

Some ladies can’t even manage a room, yet they are already planning for wedding. How would their house be when they marry. It’s a pity that many young girls and boys are not seeing it as a thing of strong necessity to know how to wash and maintain clothes properly, sweep, clean and arrange the house properly. This is one vital aspect of marriage that is unavoidable. You are not supposed to learn it in marriage. You are expected to have known it well enough and get used to it before wedding.

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