A student asks ME!, “What is LOVE?”
MENTOR!!! said, “in order to answer your question,
go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat
and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once
and cannot turn back to pick.”
The student went to the field, g0 through first row,
he saw one big wheat, but he wonders… may be
there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one… But may be there
is an even bigger one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat
field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big
as the previous one he saw, he know he has
missed the biggest one, and he regretted.
So, he ended up coming back to me with an empty
hand.
MENTOR!! told him, “this is love… You keep looking
for a better one, but when later you realize, you
have already miss the person…”
“What is MARRIAGE then?” the student asked.
MENTOR said, “in order to answer your question, go
to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and
come back. But the rule is: you can go through
them only once and cannot turn back to pick.”
The student went to the corn field, this time he is
careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he
reach the middle of the field, he has picked one
medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to
the me.
Then i told him, “This time you bring back a corn.
You look for one that is just nice, and you have faith
and believe this is the best one you get… This is
MARRIAGE!.”
Morals……!
A) We come to love not by finding a perfect person,
but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.
B)“A successful marriage requires falling in love
many times, always with the same person!
