One of the most dangerous things to do as far as matters of the heart is concerned is raising the hope of someone you are in a relationship with without a genuine intention to marry him or her. The matter of the heart is a sensitive one, this is because of the emotional and psychological trauma that follows a heart break.
If you see no future together with a person, please let them know, don’t raise their hopes of marriage, worst of all, to the men now, don’t have sex with her making her believe you will marry her. Such deceit most times attracts dangerous curses. And you aunties, stop thinking that it is when you start giving a man sex that is when he will stay, love & marry you. Many ”I will marry you” is just a format to soften your heart and make it easy to get in between your legs. Don’t lead anyone on if you don’t see a future with them.
The curses most people later battle with in their marriage, is often as a result of the men or women they offended in their past relationship without making peace with them.
Be guided in your relationship dealings and avoid intentional disappointment. Men stop the business of using and dumping ladies after promising them marriage, your future is at stake in such business and your destiny is being negotiated in the long term. Aunty stop turning men you don’t see a future with to your ATM machine.
To love and be loved is a beautiful thing, but to intentionally hurt the heart that genuinely, passionately and wholeheartedly loves you is an inconsiderate thing to do. Think about this deeply!
I hope this meets you well?
