Men value respect more than money, beauty, etc. If a man has a well-paid job but feels disrespected at the workplace, he will leave. If a husband is not getting the kind of respect he needs at home but can get it in the streets, he will make the street his next home. This is how vital respect is to men.
Men put their attention, passion at where they get respect. And because of this, some men are afraid of getting married to a well educated and career woman thinking she might not give him the respect he needs or might value her career over him. A thought which is not always true.
Some men go to the extent of finding women who they are far ahead of in education or earning, or a woman who is not working, who will just be at home. To him, such a woman will not just see him as the husband but her Boss, by so doing, he will have her full respect.
That’s just one desperate approach some men use to get their spouse. You don’t need a wrong approach to get the right partner.