Honestly to know Gods will in marriage e no hard atall. Make sure you are born again also develop your relationship with God with these you can hear God easily if you really want to know his will in marriage.
However, not everyone or any one can be your spouse. GOD HAS SOMEONE WITH WHOM YOUR DESTINY IS TIED. Because he or she is born again no mean say na your husband or wife so you need to find out who this is by asking God.
How to know Gods will
God speaks in different ways to His children without confusion. Make I put down d little ways wa I know.
1) Renewal of mind (Romans 12.2 KJV And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.) If God would instruct us we must renew our mind with Gods word and imbibe Gods own value system. God can use your clean and clear mind to communicate His will to you through His word.
2) Inner witness. You may not be able to explain this but something within, deep down in your spirit tells you this is your spouse. You may want to shake it off but not be able. It may even be someone you would not have chosen.he or she may not be your tribe. You will find it difficult to pray it off if God is in it because He has given us the Holy Spirit to guide us into all truth(Joh 16:13 KJV Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come.) also you go just get dis perfect peace of mind d more u pray.
3) A still small voice only you can hear. You may be meeting the individual for the first time or have known for a while but the voice will be so clear it can’t be mistaken. All other indicators in spiritual qualification will also key in (1Ki 19:12 KJV And after the earthquake a fire; but the LORD was not in the fire: and after the fire a still small voice.)
4) Revelation in dreams or visions.(Act 10:9_20). God does instruct and guide his people through dreams and visions. We must however take caution in the interpretation as well as ensuring our mind is clean, with no idols inside. That is, no personal desire, lust or inordinate affection.
5) We need to ask for His will in prayers(Mat 7:7 KJV Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you) God knows all men and the end from the beginning. A lot of people pretend while among Gods children and if you assume everyone in church is a believer you may pick a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Satan agent also attend even Christ centered Gospel Churches.
How do we confirm that what we have received is from God?
a. God can not reveal a sinner to you as your spouse. The person fit be divorcee or even polygamist. Run for your life biko. 2Co 6:14-17 KJV 14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? 15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? 16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. 17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,
b. Check with your spiritual leader or discipler. If your leader tells you to go and pray again, there may be danger. He might be having a check in his spirit. Take your time to fire prayer wella ooo
c. Inform your Christian biological parents to pray about it. They may be able to get more facts that will help you to make correct decision.
d. Involve the church marriage commitee. (IF YOUR CHURCH HAVE ANY)