Many young men want to become a great man, and not just that, but also a great lover or husband. But their lifestyle is the opposite of what they want to be. The fact that you are not ready for marriage now doesn’t mean you should play or use any woman or live any reckless life and still want to settle down as a great husband when you marry.
Being a husband doesn’t just happen when you get married. Become a great boyfriend, else you will have to fast and pray to God that your daughter never dates or gets into a relationship with a guy like you.
The first secret of being a great husband is having a great wife who supports you all the time. You need full time supporter, not part time for your marriage is a full-time job. If you are dating a lady who doesn’t support you all the time, it’s a red flag. Men can do more when they have a woman who supports them.
When you watch sports, the greatest sport personalities have their wives supporting them in what they do. They travel with them and go through the good and bad times together. Many successful businesses or entrepreneurs have their wives as their strongest support. They stay with them in good and bad times.
The Second thing that makes a man a great husband is to make sure smiles do not run out of the face of his wife. A man who is sensitive, sacrificial and thoughtful. Women don’t like to be in a relationship with a man who is insensitive to their needs, feelings, etc. They love a man who can give to them not only money or material things but time, attention, insight, knowledge, counsel, motivation. A man who makes them a priority. He puts her first.
As a man, your biggest mistake is to give another person the opportunity to make your woman happy or put smiles on their face. It is not about sacking men from her or preventing her from knowing or seeing men but by doing what will make her happy or put smiles on her face. If you fail to do that, you end up pushing her into looking for happiness outside the marriage. Only the wise will Understand! LET LOVE REFINE YOU!
