If it feels like your relationship is on the urge to die, here are the six stages that help you check what you need to look for.
Every stage of a relationship has it’s problems and it’s better u know the difference stages of a relationship so that u won’t be novice to them
1) THE BEGINNING STAGE: We call this stage the Happy relationship. This is the bed and roses phase, where both partners are focused on the relationship and put in efforts to keep it healthy. At this stage you miss him always, even in his absence you can perceive his smell. You don’t mind kneeling down to greet him while on phone, you dream about him or her, you can even swear that u won’t leave him or her Lol
This is that initial stage of love when the sky looks more blue than usual, the chirping of birds feels sweeter, and the sun shines brighter. You are mesmerized by your new partner’s charisma, and you can’t see any flaw in them even if you try.
2) DISILLUSIONMENT STAGE: Then comes stage two, where one of the partners realizes that not everything is as perfect as they thought. They finally start to see the other person for who they are instead of placing them on a pedestal. At stage two, your eyes don dey clear You begin to thank God say you didn’t do blood covenant that time. All those swear you swear say you will never leave her.
3) THE DETACHMENT STAGE: As the disillusioned partner keeps realizing the problems in their relationship, sorrow gains. To cope with these negative emotions, Sorrows, fight etc they search for distractions and interests they can pursue outside of the marriage. In some cases this is where partners starts cheating and flirting. You see them spending more time with friends, seeking a new hobby, having an affair, or working out; it could be anything as long as it does not include their spouse. The DETACHMENT STAGE The relationship is gradually dying..
4) THE REJECTEE PANIC STAGE: The rejectee starts noticing that their partner is pulling away and are unhappy at the point where they can even end the relationship. They start panicking upon realizing this. This is the stage you start fighting to save your relationship, you do all sorts of things to save your relationship from collapse. The brain can’t help but go into an adrenaline rush, producing fight or flight mode, and the path that people usually take in this situation is fight.
They will fight to save the relationship. The problem is that at this stage your Partner is already detached. All those extra efforts you’re putting to please him/her, do all sorts of things to repair the relationship might even provoke him the more, He knows you’re doing them just to buy his mind. Unfortunately, the unhappy partner has already left the relationship emotionally. And any efforts, pressure, and wooing will only push them further.
5) THE DECIDER FLEES STAGE: The other partner continues to pursue their unhappy partner, which leads them to experience an overwhelming need to get away from the relationship resulting in separation. At stage 5 of a dying relationship, after you have exhaust all your efforts, pleading, sending People to her etc. Separation starts coming in, you start to give up.
6) THE GIVE UP STAGE: This is the final stage of a dying relationship. We go into a relationship with a lot of hope about the future. The last thing we want to plan is how to separate from our partner. It’s hard to say when and how, but the time will come when the rejected partner finally gives up hope and is free from the broken relationship’s remnants.
Whenever you hear of divorce, know that the relationship has reached stage 5 When you see Ladies cheating in a relationship, know the relationship has reached stage 3 It likely will take some time for the rejected partner to finally give up hope that they can win their partner back. The best and healthiest thing for the rejected partner to do at this time is to focus on their mind, body, and health.
ADVICE:
If your relationship has reached STAGE 5, don’t kill yourself. Focus more on building yourself, Add Value to yourself, reactivate your mindsets and focus, take care of your Health. Leave everything to God
You can resort to counseling, self-reflection, and processing yourself and the failed relationship with a trusted friend to come out of this trauma and move on. NEVER ALLOW UR EX TO MEET YOU THE WAY THEY LEFT YOU IF NOT THEY WILL SAY Thank say I leave am ooo
Let them regret for leaving you by improving yoursef.. From Stage One to Six of this Lecture
WHICH STAGE IS UR RELATIONSHIP NOW❓
WHICH OF THE STAGE HAVE U EXPERIENCED IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP❓
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