1) I want peace in my marriage. That is why I listen to my wife and give her attention. A wife doesn’t become a nag out of choice but as a reaction to her feeling neglected and unappreciated. If a husband doesn’t want his wife to nag, all he has to do is love her and give her time
2) I want peace in my marriage. That is why I protect my spouse from misunderstandings with my parents and siblings. One of the biggest causes of lack of peace is when your spouse and in laws are in conflict. As the husband/wife, you are the bridge and key to her/him having better in law relations
3) I want peace in my marriage. That is why I make love to my spouse often. Making love has a way of reducing tensions in marriage. A healthy sex life leads to a peaceful sleep
4) I want peace in my marriage. That is why I am not only faithful, but also I deliberately do nothing that will make my spouse suspect I am unfaithful. Suspicion causes lack of peace. I am open and transparent
5) I want peace in my marriage. This is why I pray with my spouse daily. Our home is a house of prayer, our bedroom is an altar. We pray for the peace from God that is beyond human understanding
6) I want peace in my marriage. This is why my spouse and I work hard so that we have enough money. Poverty can bring about rifts in a couple, when there is surplus, a couple tends to be stress free. Poverty and laziness is not our portion
7) I want peace in my marriage. This is why I play worship music in our home more. When the home is filled with worship, peace is in plenty
8) I want peace in my marriage. This is why I have learnt to let things go, not to pick up fights with my spouse, not to argue, not to be hot tempered
9) I want peace in my marriage. This is why I keep off friends who are anti-marriage, friends who talk badly about my spouse, friends who are antagonistic towards my spouse or friends who might mislead me
10) I want peace in my marriage. This is why I tell off any one who dares to flirt with me besides my spouse, I tolerate no advances from anyone, I publicly acknowledge my spouse and I rebuke or block anyone who dares to come in between my spouse and I
11) I want peace in my marriage. This is why I do my best to make my spouse feel secure and respected. I make sure that my spouse is sure of my love. I tell my spouse “I love you” often because those three words soothe the heart.
