Fill your life with the word of God. That’s a way to know how God speaks to you. God’s word will direct you on what to do.
Be filled with God’s word when choosing the right partner, especially if you want to be the best you can be. In addition to learning a variety of things from the word, you can apply it to your daily routine lifestyle, making you unique and different from the rest of the world.
✓Be submissive to God’s leadership in your relationship: see you may have liked that young man, you may have started falling in love with that young lady but you still want God to lead you in the right direction, then you need to submit to his leadership. You need to have made an agreement with God that no matter how much you are emotionally attached ,you still want to hear what he has to say.
This way, the level of emotional imbalance will be restricted because you desire to hear what God has to say, despite that you are already loving that person. Because most times when we allow our emotions to rule, we end up falling into the wrong relationship.
But God cares about your relationship life, your love life. He wants to be a part of that life-changing journey.
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
It is for this reason that he wants to give you an expected outcome. Relationships that you expect to lead to marriage, those that glorify God, those that change your name to MRS with honour and dignity, those that bring you FAVOR as a gift for finding the right… That’s the expected end. So let him be a part of it. Let him guide you truly. While emotions will arise, because you have decided to let Him decide, you will still be able to choose rightly hearing God as emotions might prevent you from listening to Him.
✓ Another is, start doing something different for yourself and your growth, be intentional about building yourself by reading inspirational and educative books, learning to do new things, travel if you need to, change your environment if it’s necessary, just ensure you are for your own growth… If you are busy doing something, unnecessary emotions will soon die off. Try it.
✓Set your priorities right and don’t abandon the lessons you have learned in your past relationships. This can help too. Whenever you are coming from a failed relationship, don’t just jump into another offer and say you have moved on…. Instead try to sit and write down those things you did wrong in that relationship.
These are the things you regretted and those things you want to do better or work on. Then ensure you are set and ready for another life truly before you take that step.
I will stop here for now. I hope this piece has helped.
