1) Don’t ignore your wife the whole day, and expect her to be warm towards you at night
2) Don’t shout at your husband and speak to him with disrespect and a tough tone, and expect he will enjoy talking with you
3) Don’t be so guarded with your phone and expect your partner not to be suspicious
4) Don’t be dramatic in your demeanor and expect your partner will enjoy going out on dates with you
5) Don’t cheat or make your partner think you are cheating and expect him/her to easily have sex with you
6) Don’t veer away from God and expect your marriage will be exceedingly blessed
7) Don’t judge your partner and keep reminding your partner of their wrongs and expect your partner will be confiding in you about their unpleasant truths and struggles
8) Don’t turn down your partner’s sexual advances repeatedly and expect your partner will still desire you and pursue you
9) Don’t mistreat your partner in public and expect your partner will enjoy being around you with others
10) Don’t be reckless with finances and expect your partner to trust you in financial decision making
11) Don’t keep ignoring your partner’s requests for you to change and think your partner will keep caring. Soon, your partner will let you be and do you, after growing tired
12) Don’t be mean to your partner and expect your partner to see God’s love through you. Do you minister to your partner in how you handle him/her especially in difficult times?
13) Don’t keep repeating the same mistakes and think your partner will not start feeling taken for granted
14) Don’t push away your partner and act like you don’t need help and think your partner will keep forcing themselves to be there for you
15) Don’t speak anyhow to your partner especially when angry and think your partner over will feel loved.