In a discussion with his friends, ken was asked how he intended to woo the lady he wanted, Ken said, ‘it’s easy, if I toast her and she refuses, I’ll bombard her with gifts’.
Ken ‘toasted’ her, she refused initially so he bombarded her with gifts and she actually agreed, Chioma left her fiancĂ© for Ken who would later dump her.
No matter your reasons for turning down a proposal from a man, do not accept gifts from him, not until you’ve accepted the person before you can accept his gifts.
Many women are stuck with men they don’t love and are enduring the temptation of cheating. This is because they have realized over time that they love other people after being married just because they started accepting gifts from the one they had not totally accepted and loved.
Not until a man is the kind of person you want, don’t accept his gifts no matter how tempting it is, if you can rule over your appetite, you won’t make the mistake of ending up with the un-ideal spouse.