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LEARN TO SAY SORRY TO YOUR PARTNER

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Many of us are filled with pride and can’t say sorry to people we hurt with our words or actions, especially when we are older than them or well to do than them. It looks impossible for some parents to say sorry to their children when they wrong them. It’s hard for some spouses to say sorry to their partners. Some employers can’t apologize to their employee.

These hurts are not physical so many don’t know the damage it is causing relationships. It’s easy for someone to walk over you, step on you and apologize because they can feel it; but they can’t do the same when they walk over someone’s heart. They don’t even realize it just because they don’t taste their own words before they spit them on others.

There are things that damage a person emotionally, more than the physical could do. Things like harsh words, it hurts. Things like silence or being cold towards someone, it breaks the heart. Many people have lost great relationships as a result of this. We need to value relationships for out of that, God brings to our paths divine hook ups. A relationship can link you to your destination, lead you to your helper; a relationship can bring you your breakthrough.

The truth is, God sends people into our lives each time He wants to bless us but because of our ego and pride, we end up losing these blessings we prayed for. Others have become lonely because no one wants to be their friend due to this attitude, while some are sad and know no happiness.

Nobody is an island, we are all part of the body of God, we need each other to accomplish His task for us, this is why “You must be kind to each other. Think of the other person. Forgive other people just as God forgave you because of Christ’s death on the cross” – Ephesians 4:32 (NLV).

Love people from your heart, don’t wait to feel good to be nice to people, don’t wait to be in need before you become nice towards people. Let’s value relationship over money.

God values relationship over blessings, you can’t be right with God and be wrong with your fellow man. The bible says in “1 John 4:20(NLT) If someone says, “I love God,” but hates a fellow believer, that person is a liar; for if we don’t love people we can see, how can we love God, whom we cannot see?

The friendship we share with people will always be sweeter than the honey we take; the relationship we share with our spouses will always be greater than the money we earn, the spirit of together makes us more stronger than power.

Learn to humble yourself and God will raise you to the height he wants. The more humble you are, the less you will tumble; the less your ego needs praise, the more your spirit receives grace.

In conclusion “Those who show loving-kindness are happy, because they will have loving-kindness shown to them” – Matthew 5:7 (NLV).

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