SECURITY is the number one NEED of a woman in marriage or relationship. Whether emotional, physical or financial.
If a man is not providing these, then what is he “manning”?
It is pure SELFISHNESS to refuse to take the necessary steps that ensure your partner’s NEEDS are met, when you’re in a relationship/marriage.
A woman NEEDS to feel SECURED in your love for her. At all times, she MUST have a sure assurance, that she’s kept and she’s safe!
If she ever has to worry about where your affections, loyalties, plans, sexuality or money is…you already ARE NOT MEETING HER NEEDS!
Marriage is a place for constantly meeting the NEEDS of other people(your spouse and children)
And the marriage DEMANDS that you ALWAYS strive to put yourself in shape, to play your role as the man/woman, effectively.