Lying or being secretive about the truth. Sometimes, the lies are an indication of insecurity or the person is just not comfortable about something in the relationship. If you observe this behavior, it’s a warning signal.
LACK OF TRUST
Honesty is the building block of trust and it takes time to build trust. So if over time, the person acts dishonestly at different times and he/she doesn’t show any remorse for his/her action, then it’s time to run🏃🏽♀️
If you observe that the person keeps turning things against you in order to suit them, it’s time to have a rethink.
Such people may use emotional blackmail just to keep you and make you feel they can’t do without you. Beware!
There’s no perfect relationship but if you’re unhappy most of the time, that’s a Red flag!
HIDING ONE’S FAMILY/FRIENDS
It’s amazing that some people are into relationships with someone and for up to 6 months, they don’t know about and have never met or seen any of the family members or close friends of their intended partner! On the other hand, some might have met the family and friends but they don’t like your friend because they sense something wrong somewhere and unfortunately you can’t seem to see things from their point of view. BUT, they see things you can’t see because you’re blinded by emotions. In such instances, step back and pray, asking God to reveal whatever isn’t right and if you’re sincerely seeking to do His will, He will surely reveal the truth to you.
Does he/she do whatever they say they would do? Do they always give excuses for not keeping to their word? Do they help you find solutions to your difficult circumstances or they’re never there when you need them the most?
Does he beat you at the slightest provocation? Does he ‘bring you down’ and speak harshly to you even in the midst of his family or friends? If you find yourself in such an abusive relationship, my sister, RUN before those flowers are put on your grave.