Sex was created for marriage and for the married. Somethings are not for everyone of which sex is one. You are not supposed to be naked with someone you are not married to. That is why you are embarrassed or ashamed when you have sex with someone you are not married to, even when no one has said you did the wrong thing.
In the first marriage which is the syllabus or God’s map for all marriages, God instituted marriage and demonstrated how the business of marriage should be done. Adam and Eve only knew themselves after marriage. Adam and Eve never had trust issues or insecurities.
Adam and Eve became one in everything, even when they sinned against God, the two still lived together. Adam trusted his wife to the extent that he didn’t question where she got the forbidden fruit from. Their marriage had such strong trust for each other because they didn’t defile themselves sexually. The two didn’t have sex before they got married.
If you are dating or studying someone for marriage who is either far away or nearby, and they request for your naked picture, such a person wants to defile you before marriage. Such a person wants to corrupt you before marriage. He or she has no business seeing your naked body for they have no access to that. It is only marriage which gives them full right and access to your body.
The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 7:4 (NLT) The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife. The Bible didn’t refer to boyfriends and girlfriends” Written by Danjuma Iliya.
