We have in the past at one or more occasions thought we were in love but today, we look back at those occasions and say, ‘It was all a mistake’.
Sometimes, your level of knowledge, exposure and understanding determine what you define as your realities. And often times, your realities are fantasies you still haven’t come to agreement that they are not things to chase after.
I have heard many times, ‘we love eachother’ and few months after, I came to hear something like, ‘I didn’t know I was with a stupid person’.
Who told you that two persons who could even go naked on the streets for each other are the best lovers?. I have witnessed people who displayed so much open affection and yet, they never crossed three months in their relationship.
There is something about emotion that it suspends the functions of reasoning and knowledge, and give us distractive choices.
A lot of the ladies that packed their things, and ran from their parents’ houses just to live with the men they called their lovers have come to look back and ask, ‘What really came over me?”.
The powerful and useful relationship is not to be defined by excessive emotion attached to it. The right people understand relationship and do everything they can to replace emotion with purpose and values. Yes, they often want to be in each other’s arms but that need does not take the place of the right needs.
If a man is showing the whole world his girl friend, it does not make it a marital relationship. It still could be the next thing that ends quicker than expected.
That a man was the first to take a woman’s virginity is not a sign from God that she has found her husband. Sticking to him down the wrong lane because of the pride of giving him your virginity is just the way kids make their own folly decisions.
Relationship is beyond what people display about it. Most people who understand the realities of relationship don’t let it disconnect them from the use of their brain.
