1) You and your spouse sleeping on different beds and in different rooms in the same house. It scares them
2) You and your spouse insulting each other and using curse words. They start to respect you less.
3) You beating up your spouse. Your son is exposed to the evil side of masculinity, your daughter grows up wary of men
4) You and your spouse fighting. Your children will begin to feel less safe at home.
5) You and your spouse attacking your child, not believing in your child, talking down at your child. He/she will psychologically run away from home
6) You and your spouse competing against each other. They grow up thinking family is not unity.
7) You having an affair. Unfaithfulness hurts children the most, they just don’t get to say it because they don’t have a voice
8) You disrespecting your husband. Your son will learn to be defensive and your daughter will learn to be spiteful.
9) You abdicating your responsibility as a parent or spending less time at home. Your child will feel unloved
10) You and your spouse giving each other silent treatment, banging doors, being rude to each other, walking away when the other shows up in the room. It breaks the heart of your young one.
