In most cases, men really struggle when they want a woman to accept their proposals. The long talks, gifts, ups and downs, etc. all to get her can really make one upset. But how do you keep her after winning her ?
The following are some major ways to keep women:
1) LOVE HER ALONE ;
Women hate competition or when a man makes room for their rivals. Let her breast satisfy you.
2) BE A FATHER OF HER CHILDREN; Women like men who are ready to father their kids. They feel so happy when one spends good time with their children.
3) BE THE HEAD;
Women want their men to take charge of their roles, homes, etc. as the head of the family. No woman wants to marry another woman.
4) ALWAYS ACCEPT YOUR FAULT WHEN YOU GO WRONG.
Women hate it when a man is always egoistic, even when they are wrong and still acting as if all is well. Bro. drop your ego.
5) BE A MAN WHO APOLOGIZES ANY TIME YOU GO WRONG;
Women like men who spot their faults, apologizes for it , and furthermore change from it.
6) WOMEN HATE MEN WHO USE HARSH OR ABUSIVE WORDS ON THEM;
Women really absorb words from their men and can keep what you say about them in their hearts for many years. Never use harsh words on her, like “you’re a prostitute,” “you’re a waste,” “your vagina smells “etc. You kill her soul with such words.
7) DON’T BEAT OR ABUSE HER;
The day you hit your wife, you sold your position as “head.” Beating a woman won’t and can’t change her; talking to her as your own woman is the solution. We don’t straighten a plant by beating it but you support it with a stick. Help her to fix things.
8) UNDERSTAND HER
At times, most men want to treat their women like other men, which is so wrong. You need to come to their level before you can deal with them. Know and understand why she is doing what she is doing. Learn to be patient with her.
9) MAKE HER HAPPY
Though happiness comes from within, how you live with your woman also plays a role. Make jokes and fun of the most things you do as partners. When she finds joy around you, it will be hard for her to leave.
10) GET TIME OR ATTENTION FOR HER;
No matter your busy schedules, make time for your woman so that you can talk, plan together, etc. This shows how important she is to you.
11) SUPPORT HER AND PROVIDE FOR HER;
At least this is one major way she knows you care for her. Just do what you can.
12) HONOR AND RESPECT HER OFFICE AS A WOMAN (A QUEEN) ;
At times some men see women like their slaves or maids, so they treat them that way. Treat her like a queen so she brings the king in you.
13) SURPRISE HER WITH GIFTS OCCASIONALLY;
You boost her love for you when you surprise her with gifts.
14) DON’T FORGET ABOUT SPECIAL OCCASIONS;
Don’t forget about her birthdays and special occasions like marriage anniversaries, etc. Set an alarm for that if you easily forget things.
15) LEARN TO APPRECIATE WHAT SHE DOES FOR YOU;
Always appreciate what she is doing for you and stop being ungrateful. Don’t let your lips stop saying thank you.
16) BE NICE TO HER RELATIVES;
Be nice to her family members and never disrespect them .
17) COMPLEMENT HER
Say sweet words to her ears timely. eg,; Oh, dear, you look beautiful in that dress. You’re sweet, nice, etc.
18) LISTEN TO HER OPINIONS;
Don’t let it look like, you the man, always have the final say. Most women can give wise and good counsel that can save the whole family from trouble. Listen to her opinions because they matters.
19) “MONITOR HER MOOD SWINGS;” Attend to her when you see that she is moody. Menstrual pains , labour pains etc.. requires your attention and care. Ask what’s happening and find solutions to it. It is not always about money, bro.
20) PAMPER HER;
See your woman as your last born. You shouldn’t force things on her. Pampering her will make her open up easily. Women are not men.
21) LOOK ATTRACTIVE AND PRESENTABLE ;
No woman expects people to talk ill of her man because it hits them strongly. Look good so that she gets the praise.
22) TIMELY HELP HER WITH HOUSEHOLD CHORES ;
After a long day of work, she may look tired and ask that you help her get things done. She will always feel appreciated with that.
23) DON’T BE A VISION OR DREAM KILLER;
Help her to accomplish her vision as far as it pleases God. Don’t sabotage her because she is progressing.
24) BRING HER CLOSER TO GOD;
Don’t seize her from the things of God. Help her to know God more. And do pray together as partners.
25) REMAIN FAITHFUL AND TRUSTWORTHY TOWARDS HER:
Every woman wants to be in safe hands, which is why she may channel many things to you as her man to lead. Always remain faithful in all your dealings with her.