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SIGNS A GUY ISN’T SERIOUS WITH YOU

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A lady once chatted me up, after asking her a few questions, I realized she was (unknown to her) a side chic, or just a passing fling for a guy she had been dating for close to a year now.

Her question that day,

“How do I know a guy is not serious with me?”
After 6 months to 1 year of dating someone, observe the following to know if he is serious with you.

1) They never talk about the Future with You.

When a man you are dating sees you in his future, he talks about you both in the futuristic tense and discusses the future with you a lot.

He asks you about your plans for the future and tells you his. He discusses things that are futuristic, like raising kids, careers, getting married, growing old,

But a guy who isn’t serious is only concerned about talking about today with you, because that’s all he has to offer, and is only concerned about what you are wearing under your clothes, because that’s all he is interested in.

2) They haven’t introduced you to their friends and family.

After one year of dating a guy, and you are yet to meet his friends or family members, my dear, who have you people been meeting? The gate man at silverbird Cinema or the staff of kilomanjaro?

A serious guy will want to know your family members soon enough.

When a man isn’t showing any interest in meeting your family members, he becomes uncomfortable when you ask after his family members, babe, smell the coffee.

Because he knows doing that is a sign of commitment and accountability, and he doesn’t want to be committed to you and accountable to you or your parents, so he avoids it.

3) They don’t make plans with you very far in advance

When a man is serious about you, about marrying you, He plans things, 5 months, a year ahead with you because he sees you in his future and expects you to be in it..

A man who isn’t serious with you doesn’t want to make any plans for the future with you because he knows he may/will soon drop you.

When you bring up plans for the future, like a date or an event in 5 months or a years time, he will say, “We will see about that,” and never anything concrete

4) Your connection is mostly physical.

Because that’s what he wants.

The Relationship is not deep, all you do is meet, cuddle, have sex, eat, see movies, and go your seperate ways, then that’s a SHALLOWtionship that needs to be invited to attend DEEPER Life Ministries for Deliverance.

You don’t discuss deep things about life, family, church, he only calls you when he wants to press your body, Aunty comes down from that once chance vehicle.

You are not for testing.

5) They avoid serious talk about the relationship

Ask him about the relationship and what is going on and where it is going, and he turns into a defender. He starts to stammer, he wants the topic changed, he becomes uncomfortable.

But ask him if he wants to cuddle. His eyes will shine like an industrial flood light as a yeye boyfriend material that he is.

A man who is serious about you is clear about his intentions,

He knows what he wants, YOU

He knows what he wants from you, MARRIAGE,

He has a time frame, and he is always willing to discuss you and the relationship.

Dear lady,

Shine your eyes

Don’t allow any NFA (No Future Ambition) to occupy space in your heart and life and be blocking the Serious Men from coming into your life and doing the needful..

“BOYFRIEND is not HUSBAND”

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