Men and women marry for millions of reasons that are not really love reasons.
Marriage does not always happen because two persons are truly in love.
A lot of people really want to run away from being single. Pressures from age, families, circumstances and hurtful family background do make a lot of people to accept marriage from people who don’t deserve them.
When you post your half naked picture on the social media as a woman, do you wonder why you get thousands of ‘Likes’ and much adorable ‘comments’ than when you post a piece of the scriptural quotes?
This is to tell you that there are millions of wrong people who would love to end up with you for your body than for your being right. Only when they get you married that they begin to look for same thing they didn’t look for in you at the first time.
Many men marry their wives because of their shape and sexy look. I have had men told me that they really married because of sexual satisfaction that was first there for them when they began to date and they never looked at anything else until now that those things they never looked at became necessities their wives don’t have.
Millions of women don’t mind ending up with a man as long as he has money to make their lives easy and rosy. Would you say that these millions of women are truly in love with the man? No.
Most people get into your life for many wrong reasons.
A lot of people are humble to you for your position and not for your personality.
A jobless man could marry a woman because she has a growing and successful business.
When you are approached by someone for marriage, find out what he or she saw in you first. If he or she never saw your inner values but things around you, it is going to be a bad marriage at the long run.
Never take a woman’s sexual ability as what would help you most in your marriage. Most wrong women could be good with sex like a skill and that is the boundary of their achievement.
I have never for once taken a wedding as a blessed marriage. People have had successful wedding and jumped into a failed marriage.
We need to be very intentional with the foundation of choices. Most times, the problems that show up later in marriages are results of the reasons we got into marriage for.
