Stop letting these men dump their spiritual responsibilities on you by asking you to go and pray concerning a marriage conviction that God gave him in your absence.
If any man comes and tells you that God told him you are his wife. Clap for him, be genuinely happy for him, you can even buy him sharwama to encourage him for having such an intimate connection with God such that he hears Him. After that, tell him to go back to his secret place and ask God to reveal the same mysteries to you as a confirmation since he has a direct access to Him.
The God that gives convictions also gives confirmations.
With utmost respect to the genuine brothers that heard God before making advances, some of these men heard nothing. Many have no private walk with God that can produce such fruits, their secret place is their emotions. So he will come and nack you a story about how God is leading him to you, after that he will ask you to go and pray about it. What he is doing is transferring his spiritual responsibilities to you.
This is how you too will go and start fasting and praying to receive a confirmation over a matter that God never convicted.
So God be like, “wait, excuse me, I never told anyone you are his wife, so what exactly do you want me to confirm to you.”
Most times God’s silence to your prayer is a sign of His uninvolvement. Daddy knows nothing about what you are trying to confirm. You are over here praying for a confirmation while God is over there wondering who He gave a conviction to in the first place, while all this is going on, uncle conviction is not even praying about anything at all, bro is there chilling and waiting for a response.
See, this is what happens, and believe me this is true. By the time he starts bugging you for an answer for a few weeks while asking you out to dinner at the same time and calling you to talk on the phone for 2hours plus the plenty romantic text messages, your confirmation will come.
Not from God, but from those frequent night calls and dinner dates.
It usually starts with “and he is a nice guy sha, he is cute and caring too.” When you start talking like this when God has not said piiiiiiiim, just know that your confirmation has come – from the sharwama and ice cream he bought for you.
Some of you what a man needs to comfirm that God told him to marry you is just to send an Uber to come and pick you up to go see a movie with him. My sister forget it, God has finally spoken, he is the one.
The worst is some aunties, the moment Air condition blow their brain they ignore their common sense. Small AC weh blow you inside his 4runner you have started hearing the voice of God in your imagination.
My dear strong your heart o. The God that reveals can also confirm!
Did you not read that the same God that convinced Moses to stretch his hand and path the sea also hardened the heart of pharaoh to keep on chasing after the Israelites. Of what use is parting the sea if your enemies won’t drown in it?
Of what use is giving him a conviction if it will take ages for a confirmation to come? Before God sets you on a journey, be rest assured that He has already prepared the way.
It is not in your place to start fasting and praying to receive a confirmation aunty, it is his duty to commit God into proving Himself by speaking peace into your heart concerning Him.
See, you are getting it all wrong, the confirmation is not even for you sister, it is for him! If God has truly sent him to you, the biggest proof that he heard correctly is to come to you and realise that you are already aware of his coming.
Go and ask John the Baptist about the principles of convictions and confirmations.
You better relax and take care of yourself.
