Getting a life partner – many times people say, how do I get the right life partner? I’m seeking a life partner, and I’m searching everywhere for a life partner. What should I do? Let’s go to the word of God.
When did Adam get a life partner and how did Adam get a life partner? The Bible says that Adam didn’t even know that he needed a life partner, because Adam was so much complete in himself and one with God. He never realized that he needed a life partner.
God felt the need. God realized that Adam needed a life partner. ‘It is not good for man to be alone. I will bring a helper into his life, a companion fit for him’. So the first thing is, Adam didn’t realize this, because Adam was complete. It was God who realized Adam’s need and brought a life partner into his life.
So the first thing is, you need to know that we have to focus on being complete and becoming complete. The day we become complete, God will say, ‘Yes, now this person really needs a helpmate fit for him’ and then God will bring the right life partner (the right person) into our lives.
It is God who joins us in marriage. So, we need to pray saying, ‘God, help me to be complete’. Just focus on being complete in God and complete in yourself because the world’s saying is, when a person introduces his wife he says, ‘this is my better half.’
That means this person is half and his spouse is another half. We both are half and half and together we make one full person. No! God wants you to be completely one, so that you are complete and God brings another complete (person). Two completes will become one big complete for the glory of God. If you are half and your spouse is another half, then you keep looking at each other for the other half to become complete.
So, you don’t look to one another, to become complete. You got to be complete in yourself and God will bring the right person into your life.
