It’s never true that men are polygamous in nature and they cannot be with one woman; and it’s also not true that men cheat and no matter what you do, they will cheat on you.
A man can love one woman, a man can stay faithful to one woman. The problem of a man is not faithfulness or monogamy but has more to do with what a man wants from a woman or what a man sees in a woman.
Every human being is made up of the spirit, soul and body or flesh. Many times, men are attracted to a woman by their body. A man can fall in love with your body, desire to be with you, crave for you.
When such a man has an opportunity to explore your body (have sex with you), he sees nothing new about you. He comes to you because he misses you or desires you.
Such a man can easily lose interest in you as soon as he sees someone who looks prettier than you. To such a man, it’s difficult to be attached to one woman when there are more good-looking women around.
But when a man gets attracted to your soul which comprises your mind, character, thoughts, and feelings, it’s really difficult for such a man to leave. The more time he spends with you, the more he gets interested in you and the more his love for you grows. He doesn’t want to lose you; he cares about how you feel.
To such a man, a beautiful woman is a good person with a good character, a woman with a great mind, who loves learning. He is in love with your thoughts, your words, your mindset, deeds and actions. Your body is just a bonus. When he is away from you, he carries a piece of you away with him. He misses you, and looks forward to talking to you.
Have you asked yourself why it’s easy for a man to change women but difficult for him to change his best friend? If he is connected to the woman by her body, it’s easy to change. But if he is connected by the mind, it is difficult to change.
For the young ladies looking for a lasting relationship such as marriage, be with a man who is attracted to your soul. It takes such a man to keep marriage. Look for a soul mate and not just someone to share your body with.
In conclusion, “Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades. The woman to be admired and praised is the woman who lives in the Fear-of-God.” – Proverbs 31:30 (MSG).
