A queen doesn’t want swag; she wants class. Learn to have a life, don’t live other people’s life. Most guys don’t have a job but they know all the party joints. They have been to all the clubs and birthday functions. They don’t read books that can change their lives. Some don’t even have a bank account. You can’t sleep with all the girls and go scot free; you can’t waste people’s lives and think yours will be spared.
You can’t make women cry and think you will always smile. A man reaps exactly what he sows. Being a ‘Big Boy’ is not in wearing pencil trousers, sun shades, holding Blackberry, iPhone, iPad or Galaxy, and then cross your legs. Being a ‘Big Boy’ means when there is a need and people are looking for the one who can solve or handle it, you’ll be the one.
Even when they call your number and don’t get you, they come home looking 4 you- just like David (1Sam.16:14-23). Being a ‘Big Boy’ means being RELEVANT and not a LIABILITY! Use your time to read good books, work on yourself as an individual-especially if you are single, sit with scholars and not people who discuss football as if it’s their calling. Be like Jesus who even at the age of 12 was found seated amongst scholars (Luke.2:42-47).
Be with people who want to go somewhere; sit with kings and add value to your life. Your queen should be proud of you and not being laughed at. Having numerous girlfriends will never be an achievement. Achieve socially, academically and financially. Never forget also that any man can get a woman but not every man can get a wife. Written by Danjuma Iliya
