A good man not only makes you feel good about yourself, he makes you feel special and unique in this world. He makes you happy more often than not. A good man is someone you wouldn’t mind leaving your five year-old self with. A good man understands that men and women are equal.
He is looking for a partner, not someone to take care of him and to cook his meals and clean his bathroom. A good man respects you, and respects women. A good man has honor, a rare virtue in modern society. He respects himself and is striving to be a good person and create positive energy in the world. A good man doesn’t cheat and lie because he is afraid of being caught; rather he doesn’t cheat and lie because he is a man of honor and respects himself as such. A good man will hold your hand, and hold you. He will hold you when you cry, hold you when you’re sick, hold you when you look like crap- and tell you that you’re beautiful. A good man is mature. Boys will be boys, but boys aren’t men.
A good man is confident in himself and in his place in the world, enough so that he can laugh at himself. A good man has a sense of humor. A good man has a giant heart and is kind to all, great and small. He is not only nice to those with more power who could help him out in return one day, but to small children, animals and waitresses as well.
He is caring and considerate of your feelings, even when they don’t make sense. A good man realizes that strength and self-worth come from within, not from external factors like a fast car, fat bank account or big muscles. A good man holds the door for other people- not just for women he is trying to bed. A good man is not afraid to show affection, because he knows that giving a hug or displaying emotions does not make him less of a man.
It makes him human. A good man splits the household chores 50/50; after all, you both ate the food and made the messes equally. A good man realizes that your time and work is just as valuable as his and does not expect you to clean up after him. A good man is not threatened by your success, because he is successful too- or at least striving for success.
A good man knows there is enough success to go around. A good man offers his seat to old people on the bus. A good man is your fan, and lets you know this on a regular basis with words and actions. His emotional support makes you a stronger person, which does not threaten him at all, because he
sees you as a team, not as competitors.
A good man loves his mother. Men who hate their mothers either do so without reason (which is bad) or hate them for a reason (which is worse). A man who hates his mother has issues that you cannot fix. Most of all, a good man makes you want to be a good human entity! What kind of man are you?
