Desperation, loneliness and family pressure are some factors which are chasing people into bad relationships and some end up in bad marriages.

I find it difficult to understand why a real person will put up with a fake one without knowing; why a believer will happily accept a non-believer, why a victim will end up with a culprit.

We do all these because we don’t know our worth; when you start seeing your worth, you will find it hardest to settle down with people who don’t.

There is a blessing in saying no. Yes! you have to learn to say no to what you don’t want or deserve without feeling guilty. Setting boundaries is healthy, after all monkeys play by size and waters find their level.

Singles, a secret you need to know in life, we don’t attract want we want, but who we are. If you are a lazy man, you get attracted to a lazy woman. If you are criminal, robbers are your friend.

From today, closely observe any couple you meet, you will realize they have intersection, something in common. If the man is a lair, there is a chance the wife is a thief.

If the woman is a pretender, chances are the husband is a hypocrite. If the two indulge in alcohol, maybe they have a ‘blue kiosk’ in common.

So then instead of praying for a God fearing, hardworking, loving and caring partner, start working on yourself. You first become who you want to be attracted to. For what you have will give you want you want.

Once you know yourself, you are eligible to welcome another person into your life. No matter how attractive they may look, no matter the potential you see in them, you have to date their reality not their fantasy to know them.

Your purpose of dating anyone is to find someone who will grow old with you rather than someone to have fun with while young.

Bear this in mind, someone who is worthy of your love will never put you in a situation where you feel you must sacrifice your dignity, your respect, your integrity, your self-worth just to be with them.

“Better to be poor and honest than rich and a cheater” – Proverbs 28:6 (TLB).

If you are giving your all and it’s never enough, it clearly means you are giving it to the wrong person.

It’s said, one beautiful heart is better than thousand beautiful faces. So instead of spending all your time, effort and resources to look good, work on your heart and you will end up with someone with beautiful heart.

In conclusion “Good people do good things because of the good in their hearts. Bad people do bad things because of the evil in their hearts. Your words show what is in your heart” – Luke 6:45 (CEV).

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