Hear Me, There’s nothing absolutely wrong, nothing whatsoever wrong with a lady asking her fiance what are his plans for their future as regards Marriage.
He who has clean hands fears no accusation.
Only a guy who has no plans for the future will detest such a question.
As a lady, you are in a Relationship, 1 year, 2 years, 3 years going and you’re keeping quiet, because “he will say I’m putting him under pressure”
Pressure kor, Treasure ni.
Two years of your life gone, third year counting, you still have no idea as to when he would love the relationship to go to the next level, he has never mentioned it even while in his happiest mood, is that one not pressure already on you?
You are not giving him an ULTIMATUM but simply making an ENQUIRY . .
A Responsible guy will not even wait for his lady to start thinking where the relationship is going, or when things will take shape, he already let’s her know because he’s already thinking of the future.
“honey, you know things are still not too okay with me now, but once they are okay, I plan to go see your people NEXT YEAR 2022, or 2023” or “once I finish THIS/THAT project, I’ll…..
A Responsible Man won’t see such question as pressure but an inquiry that requires an answer, a definite head-on answer.
A Responsible Man addresses issues. An Irresponsible Man avoids them.
Aunty,
ASK HIM. So that you know if you CAN or SHOULD wait.
Some guys don’t have any date in mind, they don’t even want to marry you,
Others know if they tell you the date they have in mind that you may not wait.
When the teacher refuses to teach, the confused students are left with no option but to ask plenty questions.
