Most times we talk about ladies.. ladies. Ladies..
what they need and what doesn’t need in a marriage and relationship.. forgetting that men too needs a whole lot in a relationship and marriage …
No matter how strong.. stoic or mean a man is.. a single gesture of love and tenderness from a woman will melt him..
So what does a man need in a relationship and marriage..?
1) A man needs love.. a love that’s so genuine and pure.. he shouldn’t beg for it.. he shouldn’t buy it with money.. he shouldn’t force.. the love should flow freely from your side to him..
Just like women cherish love.. same to a man too..
No matter how hard a man is.. once you genuinely show him you love.. he will begin to loosen up..
2) A man needs respect.. this is the basic amongst all.. respect a man.. and earn his love and trust..
Men most times sees respect from a woman as love.. learn to respect your man.. he values it.. he cherish it the same way a woman cherish surprise packages..
3) A man needs support.. yea currently in this era.. men are not left to carry The Whole burdens.. he needs support from a woman.. both financially.. mentally.. physically and otherwise..
Learn to give support to your man.. yes men are built to be strong and take care of the family.. but the duty of a woman in a man’s life is to support him so that he doesn’t die quickly or be drained with too much family problems..
4) Men also desire for care.. they are like babies.. take care of them..
Let me tell you one secret.. once you start taking good care of a man.. he will be sticked to you .. it will look as if you charmed him or something.. No.. you didn’t.. you only applied the feminine charm which taking care of him..
5) A man needs Affection.. most times they are overwhelmed by the too many responsibilities surrounding him.. hold his hands.. give him a kiss.. assure him that you love him and you are right beside him.. after a stressful day from work.. hug him.. tell him sweet things that he will love to here.. sometimes men are emotionally unstable.. but with the right woman by their side.. they will stand strong.
6) Men love appreciation..
No matter how little that gift he bought for you is.. appreciate him.. thank him for it.. appreciate him for taking care of you and the family.. praise him..
7) Men need prayers too..
As a virtuous woman.. channel your prayers to your husband often.. because he’s the head of the house and the captain leading the ship.. so if anything should go wrong with the captain.. the ship might wreck or sink.. but if the captain is in a good condition and stable.. he will definitely drive the ship to their destination..
8) Men love praises..
Learn to praise your husband.. in your language.. in English or in whatever way works for you both.. calm him sweet names.. call him your king.. your partner in everything.. your soul mate.. your Odogwu.. your painkiller.. your joy giver.. you know… mention them.. call him that sweet name that will make him to ask for your account number.. praise him without season.. don’t just praise him only when he buys you something.. no.. praise him often.. no scheduling..
9) A man needs honesty and truthfulness..
Be truthful to your spouse.. don’t buy something for a lower price and tell him you got it for a higher price..
Don’t cheat on him.. they hate cheating..
Don’t keep secrets from him.. be plain .. be honest.. earn his trust.
10) Men love partnership..
He needs you to grow with him.. he needs you to share his goals and ambitions.. he needs someone that’s ready to face life’s ups and downs..
A man needs a woman who’s ready to push him forward to achieve his dreams..
He doesn’t need a gold digger..
He needs a partner that is ready to bring forth that vision he has ..
He needs a woman who’s ready to wait patiently while he builds his future..
He needs a woman who will help him to fulfill his destiny..
Yes.. men are strong yet they are fragile in heart.. learn to love your spouse.. learn to show him care.. learn to support him..
Learn to be there for him..
Yes men needs love and care too.
