1) THE DOOR OF INFLUENCE
A Relationship gives a couple the power of influence over each other.. it’s SUBTLE, you may not notice it, but it happens.
When in a Relationship, YOU CAN INFLUENCE your partner positively and negatively, please use that power to improve/better their lives and nothing else.
People pick all sorts of habits from Partners they date, gambling, lying, praying, reading culture, etc.
Be careful who you go into a relationship with, be intentional, YOU TOO CAN BE INFLUENCED (good or bad) by your partner,
A Christian lady who accepts to date hushdaddy abi hushbaby, because of money, be rest assured your spiritual life is about to faint.
Marry someone who can make you better, not worse.
We will never be able to tell between Ananias and Saphira, who influenced who, but there was an influencing.
Few years down the line, most couples not only begin to look like, they also begin to think, talk and behave alike.
2) THE DOOR OF RESPONSIBILITY..
A RELATIONSHIP gives RESPONSIBILITIES automatically.
Responsibility of Caring,
Responsibility of Staying in touch,
Responsibility of Contributing,
Responsibility of being Accountable.
A Person who wants to be in a relationship with you, and yet doesn’t want to be responsible for and to you is not ready, that’s already a red flag.
When they want INTIMACY without COMMITMENT, run for your life.
Don’t marry irresponsible people.
Don’t marry an idiot.
This is why many men will tell a lady they love her, impregnate her and then turn turn around to deny the lady and the pregnancy.. usually, such men will say “I am not responsible” and that’s the truth.
They aren’t saying “I am not responsible for this pregnancy” (they are, and that cannot be changed even by a denial), what they’re saying is “I am not a Responsible Person”
It is WICKEDNESS for You to go into a relationship with absolutely no plan, no willingness and little or no capacity to be responsible for and to that Person.
if you know you are not ready, you know you are not available emotionally, physically and otherwise, dey your dey.
Be careful who you go into a Relationship with
Be Intentional..
A Lion doesn’t marry a Dog.
Marry your TYPE
Marry your SIZE
