1) WHERE/WHO HE WORSHIPS: A Wise lady doesn’t only ask a Man where he WORKS, but also asks where he WORSHIPS.
Don’t just be bothered by the car he drives, also find out what drives him.
Not just where he lives, but what lives in him.
His place of Worship.
Not all Churches are churches, some are mobile shrines.
And even though he worships at a Bible believing church, find out WHO he Worships?
Does he worship Money, Sex, or God?
A Man who worships God and does so in truth and in Spirit won’t ask for sex before Marriage.
2) WHERE HE WORKS/WHAT HE DOES FOR A LIVING: A Young Man @ 23 is driving Lexus Jeep 2020 model, gives you N100k to go shopping all the time, and he never talks about his Job,
My dear, find out where he works before EFCC will tell you where.
He’s giving you hundreds of thousand everyday, and you know his parents are not rich..
Ask him how he gets his money oh, before you start looking for your pant and your destiny.
3) WHAT HE WANTS FROM YOU: Ask him, Let him say it.. Don’t assume what is in your mind is what is in his mind.
He’s asking you out?
Ask him in return. “Out to where?” Out to bedroom? Or Out to a Marriage bound Relationship,?
4) HIS GENOTYPE: Let’s not start what we cannot finish.
5) HOW DOES HE THINK: His mindsets, ideologies, this will affect how he treats People and how he will treat you.
Does he see Woman as properties?
Does he think of cheating as a normal something?
His idea on premarital sex, ask before you start, not after.
How he thinks about Woman, Men and gender roles.
How can a Lady know these things when a guy is asking her out?
FRIENDSHIP.
Don’t date people you just met or know little about
Friendship First.
Wish you all a married Life.
