As soon as you notice your wife is having an affair with someone richer or more influential than you, just take a walk, don’t fight over a woman who is cheating on you with someone she feels is better than you. You are not likely going to win such battle especially if your wife cooperates with her side cock.
See what happened between Philip, Herod and Herodias; Philip didn’t fight, he left Herodias for his influential brother, but the man/prophet who tried to fight for him by openly rebuking Herod for having an affair with Herodias sacrificed his head for it. John the Baptist was an influential man and difficult to murder because of his influence yet Herod and Herodias still brought his head down.
You can imagine if it was Philip who attempted to resist them, killing him will have been like killing a mosquito. Men, don’t waste your time, energy and life trying to fight for a woman who is cheating on you with someone richer or more influential than you, it’s a foolish fight. No cheating wife deserves that.
IF YOUR WIFE WANTS ANOTHER MAN
If a more influential man wants your wife and your wife wants him too, you will be an idiot trying to fight dirty. King David wanted Bathsheba, he used his power to kill her husband and later married his wife and nothing happened.
Mr man, it’s better to be alive than die like a chicken trying to fight for love that is not absolutely yours. If your woman loves you and wants you, you don’t need to fight to keep her from being snatched, she’ll simply resist being snatched.
The advice for CMDF women therefore is, don’t be too cheap, don’t give green light to any man, and don’t be too close to men who you are admiring and who are better than your husband etc.
MADAM, DON’T FALL FOR THE TEMPTATION
There are 4 categories of men some women may not be able to resist;
▪️Rich men
▪️Powerful men
▪️Handsome men
▪️Caring men
As a woman you can resist any man within these categories only if;
▪️You don’t like him.
▪️He has not made advances at you.
▪️He has not made you an offer beyond what you can resist.
What would have made Herodias to agree to date her own brother-in-law without hiding it?
▪️He was rich!
▪️He was powerful!
▪️He was influential!
▪️Maybe he was handsome!
To avoid falling into temptation as a woman, avoid getting too close to guys you like naturally with the qualities above who also like you. Don’t seek favour from them or accept favour that could make you indebted to them or gestures that will enslave your emotion to them.
From the time Abigail sought and accepted the kindness of David, she couldn’t resist him again.
Herodias fell for this!
Bathsheba did!
Abigail did!
Don’t be a part of the statistics!
Sense: OGA, DON’T FALL FOR THE TEMPTATION
As it is for the female folks, so it is for the male counterparts too.
Beauty, sexy bodies and successful women are men’s nightmares.
Those who know history said Herodias was a beautiful woman. That probably was why Herod Antipas fell for her not minding his beautiful wife, because in those days, kings didn’t marry ugly women, their wives were carefully selected among beautiful women. How come he fell for his brother’s wife and even went ahead to divorce his own wife because of Herodias? Some women are not ordinary; some are highly seductive while some are manipulative, so to avoid getting entangled, flee from their snares.
Proverbs 23:27
For a whore is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit.
The same way Abigail could not resist David, the same way David could not resist her, because she was charming and intelligent.
If King David had avoided looking at Bathsheba’s nakedness while she was bathing, he would have escaped falling into the temptation he fell into and the sorrows that befell him and his family. Men must reduce how much backsides and breasts they look at outside.
You will always encounter more beautiful women than your wife, but self-control is sacrosant if you must succeed as a man.
