Carefully read and digest, are you sure you’re in love? Many ladies mistake feelings and attraction for love. If you’re in love you won’t be careless, deceived and backslide. Before you would say YES I DO to any man, meditate on the points below…
1) Is God truly giving me to this man or I am giving myself to him. Don’t think every woman married the man God gave them to. You can give yourself to a man through sexual bonding, greed, lusts, lucre. IF YOU GIVE YOURSELF TO A MAN THEN BE READY TO PAY YOUR BILL.
2) Can I fulfill my destiny with this man? It is a great mistake to marry a man you can’t fulfill destiny with. What then is the benefit of being married to a man who can’t help your destiny? Most women married a handsome guy who eventually become trouble in their lives. MARRIAGE IS BORING AND BARREN WHEN YOU CAN’T FULFILL GOD’S PURPOSE FOR YOUR LIFE.
3) Don’t marry a man in whom you’re seeing your dad’s mistakes, errors and ignorance. Your desire is to be an upgrade of your parents, why will you settle with a man you’re seeing your father’s misbehaviour and wrong doings? Relax! Think!
4) Only say YES to a man that can lead, guide, mentor and instruct you. There is more to marriage than using pet names. When you join to a man who cannot show you the way then you may waste by the way. YOUR ADVANTAGE IS TO MARRY A MAN WHO CAN SHOW YOU THE WAY. Marry a leader not a sex dealer.
5) Don’t vouch for any man. How can you be beating your chest for a man you’re not married to? Do you know how he handles his erection? How does he treat every other woman in his life? YOUR CONFIDENCE IS WHAT GOD TOLD YOU ABOUT HIM AND YOUR FUTURE WITH HIM. Sugar coated words an fade. I love you can turn to regret marrying you. Be wise!
6) Dear daughter, good men are scarce. Marriageable men are scarce. I mean the man you can trust with your destiny and stay as his wife is scarce. Don’t be deceived by tush English, 6 packs, beard gangs, etc. You can only trust a man who is under divine dealings of God.
7) Guide your heart. What do you want to hear from men that’s making you give attention to Mr deceiver, Mr psycho, Mr lazy, Mr weekend sex etc. Guide your heart dear daughter. The chat you’re having online with men may put you in troubles.
8) Protect your nakedness: You’re sending your nude pictures to men online. Be careful! You’re doing video with your underwears, be warned! The next 20 years you may be paying huge amount to protect the nakedness you’re careless with today.
9) Know God before you would know the man you want to marry. The danger of not knowing God for yourself is that you may enter a vehicle that will take you far away from your destination. Selah!!! Spend your spinsterhood to seek God and find him.
