To my ladies, we need good men in our lives. I’ve heard many say they don’t need a man.
Blessing is telling you this for free today: you need them as much as they need you. This mindset is why many struggle to maintain relationships.
1) Being Overly Desperate and Obsessive
This often happens when you first meet a guy or you are in the early stages of getting to know him. If you’re overly obsessive, you might find yourself constantly calling, texting, or wanting to be around him.
Some women even start planning weddings after just one date!
Why?
That shouldn’t even cross your mind. Just because he takes you out doesn’t mean he wants to date you; he wants to get to know you.
If you act too forward or desperate, he may back off, leaving you wondering why. Practice self-control—allow the man to chase you. Remember, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing.”
2) Bragging About Your Achievements
When you first meet a man, you might feel proud of your accomplishments and want him to know. However, keep it minimal. Too much talk about your achievements can hurt a man’s ego. I’m not saying suppress your achievements, but don’t list them all right away.
3) Offering to Pay on Dates All the Time
Some women, wanting to show they are independent, overdo it by insisting on paying. If you want a high-value man, stop this. At the initial stages, men want the chance to show they can take care of you, so don’t take that opportunity away.
4) Demanding Transport Fare
There’s nothing classy about demanding transport fare to attend a date. If you can handle your own fare, do so. Unless he offers, don’t ask him to pay for your transportation.
5) Having Bossy Communication Skills
You don’t need to speak harshly or aggressively. Men find overly rude or aggressive women unattractive. Embrace your femininity if you want a man to stay in your life.
6) Being Always Available
Don’t be overly available at the beginning.
