Proverbs 22:24, “Make no friendship with an ANGRY MAN; and with a furious man you shall not go”.
Proverbs 21:19, “It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an ANGRY WOMAN.
Anger is a really strange emotion, and it’s one of the most terrifying things we can witness in a person. Unlike other emotions, anger, when directed at a person, can result in the person’s death if it’s not controlled.
It’s not too hard to find stories of spouses that got into heated arguments only to end up hurting each other. No one wants to be the center of that news story, and what’s really scary is that anger on that level is somewhat common.
Also unlike most other emotions, it’s really hard to gauge how someone will react when they’re angry. Sometimes a person will react exactly as you’d expect them to, but it’s not always the case.
The people who seem like they would be the most dangerous when angered can actually be very constructive and capable of talking things out. The people who seem like they’d be mellow when angry can easily be the type of people who snap and break bones.
Here’s the biggest reason why you need to see him angry before you get married: How someone reacts when angered can also give you a good idea of whether or not they’re going to be abusive.
