It’s very true that during Dating you are very careful not to put your all into such relationships because you are not certain or sure the one you are dating is who you think they are, but that shouldn’t stop you from letting him or her know the real you and your true value.
You don’t go out looking for a faithful person to settle down with in marriage when you are not faithful. Many of us know how painful betrayal is and it is one of the conditions which ends relationships. It is one thing that breaks hearts, causes pains and even has the power to kill.
For that reason, as soon as you start showing interest in someone, catching feelings for them, getting attached to them, wanting to know them more, wanting to date them or study them for marriage, that’s the perfect time you stop flirting with others. You take all the initiative to stop talking to all the sidelines.
It’s the best way to focus on getting what you want, it shows you are faithful from the start so you can be trusted. No serious person will take you seriously when they realize you are talking to others whilst talking to them. What you are asking from them, you are asking the same thing from others. What you want from them, you want the same from others.
You are just telling them, they are not good enough for you and even if they accept your proposal or agree to be with you, it won’t stop you from going to others. You are not faithful from the start. Even if they accept your proposal, your relationship is bound to have issues of trust.
Your partner will live with suspicions, wanting to read your chats in your absence, have issues with people you hang out with, especially the opposite sex who are your close friends.
Are you thinking of accepting someone’s proposal but you realize he is talking to others, flirting with them? This is someone who is not faithful from the start. The question to you is, how sure are you of their faithfulness when you get together or get married in the future? It is better to leave such a person to enjoy their hobby or lifestyle or habit.
If you have proposed to her and she accepted but is flirting with others or entertaining sidelines, it’s a clear sign she won’t be faithful to you, it’s better to drop that relationship.
In these modern days of privacy and secrecy, it’s a blessing to find someone who is faithful. So when you find such a partner, please take good care of the relationship. Don’t do anything that will break the trust. Protect the relationship, be responsible. Stop entertaining others else you risk losing what you have.
If you want your partner to trust you, you need to come clean, you need to be honest, that is how you earn their trust. If you don’t have any plans of staying with them or being faithful, don’t propose. If you don’t have any plans of settling down with them, don’t try wooing or seducing them.
“The trustworthy person will get a rich reward, but a person who wants quick riches will get into trouble” – Proverbs 28:20 (NLT).
