You don’t need to check his/her phone in search for text messages from other guys/babes. Stop spoiling your mind or giving yourself hypertension unnecessarily.
Never you beg someone to love you. You don’t beg for love. You allow love to grow gradually. Do things that will make the person develop love for you gradually. Not by begging or shedding tears.
If your partner says he/she wants to quit the relationship, allow him/her to go. Who told you that there is no one like your partner? There are many people who are better than your partner. A better person will come into your life.
To avoid the pain of heart break, do not give the whole of your heart, your body and your life to someone when you fall in love with the person. Human being cannot be trusted; they can break your heart at any time.
Being in love does not mean that you should worship the person you are in love with. Respect them but don’t worship them.
For the fact that you are in love with someone does not mean that you should ignore and disregard every other human being on earth except your lover. That is cowardice.
The number one person in your life must be God and not your boyfriend/girlfriend. Don’t allow love turn you into a coward.
Do not Love with your heart alone. Use your brain also.
Heartbreak is not the end of the world. It may be the open door to a happier life and a better relationship with a new partner.
Do not be afraid of falling in love again after a heart break. If a door did not close, a better door will not open.
Sometimes we just have to let go of someone who matters to us. Not because we have to, but because its the right thing to do. But let us remember that we cant force anyone to love us. We cant beg someone to stay when they want to leave. This is what love is all about.
However, the end of love is not the end of life. It should be the beginning of understanding that everything leaves for a reason, but leaves with a lesson… By Shaleo Mwelwa
