1) Stop being so demanding: Men are afraid of material ladies and those who will drain them totally. And by that you may sack serious suitors.
This is why I advice all ladies to at least get something doing to ease the burden. A lot is on him that he is already fighting so don’t go and be part of his burden but be a helper.
See your boyfriend money or husbands own as bonus.
Whether they provide or not you should keep on moving forward in this life
One secret; If you learn to be independent,hardly men will control you or treat you any how .
Even if a woman is richer, men at times fear them. And they gain the needed respect a woman need to get .
But if you are solely depending on the man for everything then change your mind today ad be busy with yourself…
2) Limit your taste and align yourself with a good standard or the on who is suppose to be in your destiny: Never put “you aren’t my type and class thing in your mind .
We are all humans and is the same dust we may return one day .
If you don’t want someone, politely say no to them instead of expressing yourself as if you’re a human than they do.
Yes in life some people begun before others and is cool for some people than others. But in all we all end in the same grave.
So my dear stay cool in your search.
3) 1 Corinthians 11:9: And man was not made for woman, but woman was made for man.
Also understand this ; some will meet theirs as rich…
Others will meet their with nothing in their hands but through hard work and determination they will get there…
Others will meet theirs from a humble beginning…
But all may end beautifully….
So let your taste and standard of men be ones who will be a good husband,take care of you and your kids.
4) Becareful with what people may be saying being friends, family etc: Advises are good and sweet to the ears but not every advice is for you.
Always let God be your final say than humans.
And also understand that you are going into marriage alone but not the family , friends or relatives.
If all turns to be good you will face it alone and so when all turns to be bad .
Don’t fellow humans and exchange gold for stones.
And mostly you are closer to the person; you should know better than outsiders.
5) Don’t be too desperate: Yes your friends are getting marrying ,your ageing , parents are on you, society is pressuring u etc..
In all don’t be too desperate. Take your time and choose the good person for your life . If you are desperate you over look red flags before you know you are in a trap.
Take your time and write your own story well so that you don’t regret your steps.
6) Stop comparing yourself to others: There is a saying we all came in here differently and will leave individually.
My dear what is good for someone may be bad for you . And your destiny is different from other people’s own . Let people progress motivate you and help you shape yours but don’t compare yourself to others.
If your friend, relative etc.. married a Borga it doesn’t mean thus your path.
Stay in your lane and stay focus ….
7) Make sure you know wifely duties . If you don’t learn: You can’t look for a husband where by you can’t cook, clean, wash, sex, treat a man well, raise kids etc …
Learn about women health too (pregnancies and co…)
If you learn you will know .
YouTube, social media ,books etc.. do have millions of good content on these topics for you to learn and build yourself…
8) Be open and confidence: Stop being so principle and difficult when you looking for a husband. You may end up sacking serious suitors away.
Be open but wise.
Just have good sense of humor.
Easy to be talk to ,friendly etc…
Also be the type who like smiling and laughing….
9) Be respectful and work on all the flaws in your character: Men want women who are respectful.
Let that be part of you by checking the choices of your words and how you present them to men.
10) Stop being abusive: Yes we know women are too emotional but that doesn’t mean you can’t be wise .
Let men sense the maturity in you so that you always protect the respect they have for you.
Think before you act but don’t act before you regret what u did…
11) Becareful with exes and the opposite sex: Infact learn to protect your relationship. Some men are devil’s in human forms. They can convince you to leave the one you are with so that they mess your life up .
Don’t give the same opportunities you may give a boyfriend to other men. End another relationship with no traces before going into another one .
Also never entertain exes because they spoil chances. Stay focus!
12) Also be mindful with the kind of messages and informations you give to your family concerning your fiancee: The more the bad news about him the higher their fears for you to marry such a person.
He is like this and like that ; and the day you guys want to marry they will say no .
So becareful with kind of info you give to your parents about your husband to be; because they won’t forget. The color you use to paint him in front of them is how they will see him .
13) Also check your vicinity: At times where you are living is what’s preventing you from getting a husband. If you get the chance come to town or city where you will be notice .
That topical village or new site de3 it won’t be easy to get a husband there.
And just as I said yesterday go for programs . Expose or advertise yourself.
14) Don’t stay together with the one you aren’t married to: Give that man something to chase sister. You being so available won’t make some men serious to marry you.
Free food, free sex etc… what again will push him to marry you?
And further more it will spoil your chances for serious suitors want to approach you…
Know your stance if the relationship have passed a year or more.
Also watch out…
Some men are looking for sex only.
Some are looking for help or money because you are working or u do have cash…
Some are there for hit and run…
Some are there to make a name that he succeeded sleeping with you . ..
Some are in transit, hmm when things begin to go well with them they will leave …
Some because of lust ( you look attractive,have a nice body shape etc..) so they want to taste u and leave..
And many reasons I can’t mentioned here be date or go into a relationship ….
So be watchful you don’t pick the one who is not one with you.
Whiles your thinking about marriage his mind is on sex or your money only..
Be watchful and look for the one with the same mission and agenda so that you don’t always end in a wrong hands or relationship.
Pray as well and that grace, favor of marriage will located you.
Remain blessed
