When a man have refused to understand the divine purpose of marriage abuse is inevitable. Marriage is a vocation not a job contract.
“I will marry you have become a phrase to deceive many ladies, including some men.
The men promise marriage while the ladies awaits in anticipation for its fulfillment.
It’s good to let you know the two major divine purpose for marriage.
1) Partnership
2) Procreation
In Gen 1:27 So created man in his own image, in the image of God created them. (Partnership)
In Gen 1:28 And God blessed them and God said unto them be fruitful and Multiply and replenish and earth. (Procreation)
As you can see in divine order ‘partnership’ came before ‘procreation’.
The problem of man is because he want procreation before partnership.
God created them male and female (partnership) and asked them to increase and multiply (procreation) but man wants to increase and multiply before coming together.
Ladies and Gentlemen you don’t promise marriage, its not a job opportunity. There is no procreation without partnership.
Many destiny and future ambitions have been destroyed in the name of “I will marry you”.
A lot of abortions committed today is as a result of “I will marry you”.
A lot of talents and careers have been buried just because someone said “I will marry you”.
I will marry you have replaced ‘Good Morning’, there is no honest intentions anymore.
Listen, if anybody promised marriage, promise him or her pregnancy.
Let’s be honest with our intention, marriage is not by force. (Men)
I will marry you is just a promise not marriage (Ladies).
Don’t open your legs because of promises. Had I known have never saved anybody.
What will it profit you to deceive her that your single while you’re married with kids?
Why do you want her to get pregnant before you can talk about marriage?
As I said before it is for man’s happiness that God created the institution of marriage.
But man have become an enemy to his own happiness.








